Seasoned Nigerian musical producer, Olumide Ogunade, better known by his stage name , ID Cabasa, says that marriage’s original intent has been “lost.”
He contends that emotional fulfillment and happiness are not the goals of marriage.
ID Cabasa recently talked with Echoo Room in an interview.
The producer continued by saying that multiplying is the main goal of marriage in accordance with biblical teachings. Happiness and contentment, in his opinion, ought to come naturally to couples who share this goal.
He said, “The purpose of marriage, unfortunately, has been lost. I would say that the purpose was not to give you happiness or satisfy your feelings.
“Happiness and every other thing is supposed to come as a benefit to you standing with that purpose. If you follow that purpose where God is the head and he says that the man should be the head of the family which means that the man reports to God, then the woman submits to the man not surrender.
“In fact, there’s a condition to that submit, ‘As unto the Lord,’ which is to say as long as the man is still under God’s umbrella.
“So when the man leaves God’s umbrella, sincerely, the woman is void. You can’t hold her responsible for not submitting.
“Submission is where the problem is. Ladies nowadays look at submission as surrender. It’s not surrender.”
Check out the interview below:
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